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To Friend or not to Friend.

To friend, or not to friend that is the question. I'm sure we have all had reasons to let go of certain friends through out the years but what about those certain friends that were once a very large deal to each and everyone of us? Would we have been better off if we not only kept in touch with those friends but actually kept them as our personal buds.

To answer this question I turn to the most important part of myself, not my heart but my soul. That part of me that is intangible but imperfect, I would have to look only for a second to say that there were reasons in my life that my soul didn't want to be friends with particular people that once turned my crank, my soul would say yes that person is still very much a part of me as are my current friends are but there is a reason why my spirit (who I really am) has rejected that friendship.

That said, I do believe in forever friends. These are those souls that even after death they were so much connected that their hearts, wherever they are are connected. Yes I do believe that there is life after death, I do believe in one G_d, and I believe that the most important thing this side of heaven is to get to know that G_d personally. I won't go into detail as to my concept of the G_d, beyond creation. But I do believe that he is good and cares for each person, personally.

Whatever your concept of the G_d, let me just say that I do regret that there were times when I could of been a better friend, that I openly admit I have failed, but to know that my concept is of a G_d that saves and forgives, better yet who knew exactly how our lives would turn out right from the beginning, G_d, is truly great and he saves those who want a friendship with him..ALWAYS.

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