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A Loaded gun.

Spring forward, fall back. We all know what it is like to have our clocks rearranged, but when it comes to the stuff of life we all prefer things to stay the same. There is a time of birth and there is a time of death, and it's the stuff in between that really drives the human race clearly insane. When we were children we thought like children, but the problem is that when we reach a certain age we are supposed to act like adults, but have you had a definite moment in your life when you realised that things were not fixed, like a prize fighter there are things in life still worth fighting for.

Not many of us realise that just beyond our horizon lies a dream fulfilled, an accomplishment gained, a victory attained, and a battle to win. We live our lives under a fog a self deception, that leaves no room for growth, that leaves no room for maturity, and definitely kills spontaneity. There are two ways to look at your life.

One, it's just a series of random events left to chance, or two, those events that shape your life can be remade or born again into something new, never to be duplicated unless you are one of those people who believes totally in fate. If that's the case you have just left me with no alternative to agree with you that somethings are out of your control.

But I am an optimist, I wear glasses that are not tinted nor are they rose coloured though sometimes that might help, I'm not a romanticist. I don't see the new but real sexual thing just behind every good movie or book. I like to say that realistically, romance isn't everything, but a woman's heart or a man's heart must be pursued. Yes I am attracted to women, but as time is telling not all women are looking for the same thing. Girls you know what you want, and you know how to keep him, but when 'it' just doesn't seem to add up anymore, you mistake him for someone you used to know. I'm not tired of trying to understand the human heart, but I am tired of being told that life is just a simple game and all you have to do to win is be the best person on your block. Reality, doesn't work that way for those of us that have been to the other side and back. Life is more like a question. "How much are you willing to pay for that item?"

This is mike.

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