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Prayer Helps to take the Sadness Away.

Holidays can be emotional for some people who are lonely or who are grieving lost opportunities or people that they lost this year or over the years. Sadness is a natural emotion, and we should allow ourselves to feel it. I have suffered with clinical depression for many years now, but my faith seems to always pull me from the terror that invades my mind sometimes. When we have been deeply hurt or had our hearts broken we can related to what the bible calls a broken spirit. What we do with our hearts when they have been hurt determines our recovery. I am 45, and I am convinced that having a broken heart makes us more human. My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart you, God, will not despise. (Psalm 51:17) May I suggest that this Christmas we all be mindful of those who have no home, or are struggling in life. Our churches this year should be filled with people who have never entered a church before, of course it is up to them to come in. Jesus offers forgiveness to all, and maybe all someone needs from you is to pray for them. When I came to Christ in my 20's, I was a very churched catholic person, but God wants a real relationship with us. A relationship that is based on grace and forgiveness, and no matter how hard it is, we need to show that same unconditional love to those who are still hurting in the world. The Lord is with those that are broken, we all want a family and peace. God sets the lonely in families, he leads out the prisoners with singing; but the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land. (Psalm 68:6 NIV) I admit, we have all had times in our lives when we just didn't understand our own brokenness, but it is an act of humility to see past another's brokenness and let them into your family and heart. The excuse we give ourselves is that we are just going to end up getting hurt, but that is a very small way to think. We all need to see our pain in the light of a broken and crucified God, and laugh and cry along with all the pain in the world.


Embrace a faith that is universal in the sense that Jesus welcomed the saints and the sinners. If I never experienced heartbreak, I wouldn't know the joy that is in my heart that comes from seeing the world as essentially broken. Brokenness isn't shame. Shame keeps us attached to our guilt, but brokenness can lead us to release our shame and guilt and begin to truly live in the light and love of God. Believers, the world is hurting and they need us to show it that we love each other, and we are not ashamed to make ourselves look silly. When we show our vulnerability, it makes us more human and helps open our hearts (not to sin) but the heart that longs to trust God and relieve the pain and suffering of others. This is Mike. 


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